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we unite peoples

Borders were drawn by people, not by love

Find the one who's looking for you

Nobody here is looking for the perfect person. Everyone here is looking for their person.

You can talk in any language, whatever your culture. Every culture is part of humanity's heritage.

A question from the profile

Do you feel part of one humanity? Does protecting the planet, its animals and oceans matter to you? And are you looking for someone to think with, build a future with and be happy with?
“Yes. I dream of planting trees together, arguing about books and building a home where people from every country are welcome.”Anna, 34, Haifa · example
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From the founder

At 40, I met a woman through a dating site. At our very first meeting I knew she was the one, and we have been together ever since, for 20 years now. I created this site so that other people can be as happy as I am.
Founder of MyIskra

Borders were drawn by people, not by love.We are forbidden to leave, forbidden to speak, forbidden to unite.

But no one can forbid us to talk to each other.No one can forbid us to love one another.No one can forbid us to build families.

We can come together, even when someone does everything to keep us apart.

We are uniting.

Unhurried dating for grown-ups

Verification

A video selfie — and you get a “verified” badge. Without it, no one will see your profile.

Filters

Secular or religious, languages — set it up the way that matters to you. You can hide any of it.

Stories that could be yours

These are examples. Send us your story and we'll publish it.

Thirty years married, and now I'm dating again

Turns out the rules have changed: now you text first and blush later. Luckily, I still know how to listen — apparently that's a rare talent.

Lina, 58example

We didn't share a single language

Our first date ran on a phone translator. It turned “I like you” into “you fit me in size.” We laughed until we cried — and met again.

Theo, 34example

Two kids, a dog and zero free time

I said so honestly in my profile. He replied: “I have a cat who can't stand dogs. Let's start with coffee — no pets.”

Amara, 41example

My grandson made my profile

And he wrote that I'm “a great cook.” Now I'm learning fast. So far my best dish is tea — and the conversations that go with it.

Kenji, 67example

Cities

People from all over the world — and every city has its own mood.

  • Tel Aviv

    The sea, sunrises and conversations till dawn in a dozen languages.

  • Paris

    A city where even silence for two is beautiful.

  • New York

    Eight million stories — and somewhere among them, yours.

  • Barcelona

    Late dinners, palm-lined promenades and walks by the sea.

  • Tokyo

    Neon, cherry blossoms and a kindness that's easy to fall for.

  • Buenos Aires

    Tango in the squares — and nobody asks whether you can dance.

  • Cape Town

    Ocean, mountains and sunsets you want to share with someone.

  • Montreal

    Two languages, four seasons and one big open heart.

  • Shanghai

    The Bund, lights over the river and walks you never want to end.

  • Mumbai

    Ocean sunsets, chai by the seafront and warm talks late into the night.

City photos: Wikimedia Commons, free licenses. Photo credits

How to reach me

Write to me — I'll be glad to reply.

ronyashay@gmail.com